My Crazy Uncle D

Two months ago, I reconnected with my Uncle Darryl. It had been a long time, due to a situation of family estrangement (which I regret, though it had nothing to do with me at the time). A year or two ago, at my cousin Sean's wedding, Uncle D attempted to teach me how to Cha Cha. It was a bit later in the evening and my family was getting ready to drive the trek back from Columbia, MO to Lawrence, KS. We ran out of time (not that I was getting it!). That was really the last time I'd spoken to or had communication with Uncle D. 

Then, in October of this year, Uncle D showed up at my wedding, and I could not have bee happier to see his bald head and beautiful smiling face! 

The first thing I said was "we've got to try that Cha Cha thing again!" Unfortunately, the DJ didn't have a Cha Cha...but eventually he played us a Tango! 

Here are the boys: Uncle D, and my cousins Sean (on the left) and Tim. I love these guys!

My sister and Tim

Tim tried to teach us how to do the Twist. I'm not sure if I'm getting it or not. 

Since the wedding I've been in contact with Uncle D a lot more, and I am so glad for it. His unique perspective, his passion, his unconditional love and undying support...Uncle D has always been one of my favorites (don't tell!). 

This Christmas, I'm taking stock of my relationships with the people I value. Uncle D recently lost his mother to cancer. My father has fought his battle with cancer twice, and has come out on top both times (praise the Lord!). I am familiar with the fragile state of life, and while my practical brain reminds me daily that you really only have time for so much before driving yourself crazy, I am working to better those relationships I already mentioned. My trip home a few weekends ago was one such attempt (and it worked!). The celebration of our two month anniversary last night was another. Every Friday, we share a meal and games with a married couple we're very close to, and tonight we're going to share a meal with an older couple from church. We don't do too poorly, really! But there is always room for a little more. 

Blessings this Christmas to you and the people you love. Take time out to share memories and hot chocolate. Go find someone you haven't spoken to in awhile, rekindle the fire of an old friendship - it will keep you warm this holiday season, and beyond.